
Catholicism and the Ezzos
Rebecca Prewett
As a reasonably perceptive reader of our site would no
doubt realize, especially after wandering over to our Theology
page, our family considers itself part of a theological tradition
that found its expression in the Protestant Reformation. So why even
offer links to Roman Catholic commentary on the Ezzos?
For the following reasons:
- We know that a significant portion of visitors to our pages
are either part of the Roman Catholic Church or former members of
that church. I'm not sure how large that "significant portion" is,
but have enjoyed email dialogue with a number. While there are
definitely some theological differences which seem insurmountable
to me, I certainly find common ground in the desire to search the
Scripture for answers to family issues. I hope that my Catholic
guests will find these articles valuable.
- Theologically discerning Protestant readers who are not
frightened <g> by references to Catholic theology and
tradition will find that the three articles referenced below offer
a number of valuable insights applicable to non-Catholics as well.
I would urge that no one dismiss either article out of hand simply
because the authors are not Protestant.
- The article in Our Sunday Visitor seemed well researched and
offered both new answers and additional questions to the oft-asked
questions about the Ezzos' background. I learned the interesting
tidbit that Anne Marie Ezzo, a lapsed Catholic, left the Church a
few years after her marriage to Gary Ezzo. More surprising to me
is that Gary and Anne Marie were married within the Catholic
Church.
- The article by John Kippley will be of interest to those who
are opposed to artificial birth control, be they Protestant or
Catholic. It offers an interesting perspective into how the Ezzos'
view of birth control influences their entire parenting
philosophy.
- Calvinists will no doubt find the Catholic perspective of
Calvinism, in Thomas Mezzetti's article, interesting. I know that
I did! However, as I have since pointed out to him (and have
written about here) Gary Ezzo's
teaching is often at odds with Calvinism as well. A true
understanding of human depravity--of our total inability to choose
good over evil in the spiritual realm and our blindness to the
things of God until He regenerates us--will render almost
ridiculous the argument that infant scheduling could offer any
sort of answer to this human condition. The suggestion that we, as
parents, can train the hearts of our children and bring about a
condition of spiritual inertia and somehow take control of our
children until God takes control is not only presuming upon the
sovereignty of God but presuming that we can somehow do that which
only He has power to do--change the heart of a child.
- I have to admit that I read Thomas Mezzetti's article with a
measure of profound sadness. I wish that such an articulate and
thoughtful critique could be written from a Protestant perspective
as well. Perhaps its existence on my web site will serve as a mild
rebuke to us Protestants. So for those who would rebuke me for
offering a critique from a theological standpoint that I find
problematic: I would urge you to pray that God would raise up
articulate Protestant voices that are unafraid to deal with the
important issues raised in these articles.
- The editorial in "Our Sunday Visitor" raises the issue of
accountability within the Church. Certainly we Protestants balk at
the very idea of a Pope! However, as Luther pointed out, the
"freedom" of everyone having their own private heresy and going to
hell in their own way is hardly an improvement. Each individual
and each individual church doing what is right in their own eyes
has led to all manner of error and discord. The lack of
accountability of many who would presume to set up teaching
organizations reaching into local churches is alarming, to say the
least. It is time that we not only establish healthy, godly
authority within local churches, but also recognized the authority
of other churches by withdrawing the welcome mat to those who are
under censure from their own church--until such time as a careful
investigation, a "church trial", if you will, has revealed either
that Biblical reconciliation has taken place or that the
disciplining church acted in error.
So now, without further comment (what a relief! readers are
no doubt shouting) I offer the following:
Neo-Evangelizing
the Catholic Family With an Alien Gospel
A Roman Catholic critique of the GFI programs, written by Thomas
Mezzetti
- CCL:
Family Foundations
John Kippley critiques the Ezzos' teaching and
philosophy
Article from "Our Sunday Visitor" not yet available
copyright 1998 by Rebecca
Prewett
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